by AustrianAndyGull » 02 Dec 2013, 14:55
Also Dave, I'm not criticising you for not going to many games, I myself generally only go to the away games but you have to understand the frustration, disappointment and anger of those fans that go home and away every week and watch what we have been served up. I finally saw a few people crack at the weekend in the away end and like you've already said, people who maybe you don't expect to but because they have it gives you the impression that it must be serious. Some even went to the bar mid second half because it was just that appalling once again and they'd just had enough. I was really sad on Saturday and sat down for the last 15, didn't even really acknowledge that Marquis had scored, I just wanted to go home even though it was a short journey for me for a change. I spend more than those that go on the coach because I travel alone and I have to foot the bill for the diesel, then the ticket etc and I felt violated by that on Saturday and the demeanour and attitude of Knill.
Getting up at the crack of dawn every other week and travelling 3,4,5 + hours in the cold and dark to get to dumps like Fleetwood, Accrington, Scunny, Morecambe, Bury, Rochdale and so on, the incessant rubbish on the pitch, the costs involved, the time spent, the days off work booked to go to Burton for the night game, the despair and the anger building. Seeing our manager motionless on the touchline making bad and bizarre decisions in front of their very eyes and not being able to do a thing about it, then trudging out of the ground to face a long journey back and not get in until late. This on the back of what happened last season too and I can totally understand why there maybe some resistance to adhering to the 'we're all in this together so let's support as one' notion.
And some fans who have commented on some of the anger aimed at Knill on Saturday too annoyed me. It was probably their first away game of the season and they suddenly felt they had a right to criticise others, some of which have been to every away game until now and given nothing but full, unbridled vocal support. These people commenting about this don't see this though, they just see a bit of abuse being dished out for the last 20 on Saturday, most of it not really that bad anyway, but they see this and make stupid comments like 'they were embarrassed to be a torquay fan on saturday' and stuff like this.
Maybe if they understood that it is mainly these die hard fans who keep the club afloat who quite understandably have finally had the camels back broken culminating at Scunthorpe then maybe they would keep quiet and not post such irresponsible comments.
I can't speak for the home fans at Plainmoor but I know for a fact that out of 8 away games I've been to the support to a man has been thoroughly exceptional and everyone at those games should be really proud of themselves and what they have tried to do.
What I am trying to say after all that is that we should all get behind the lads in every game regardless but I don't think it workable nor necessary for everyone to get behind Knill. So long as there is no more abuse from the terraces then that would be an acceptable truce, let Alan work in peace and without question whilst he is on the touchline. I think that is fair but I don't expect half of us to actually proactively support the man by shouting we love him and things. I accept that you will always get a proportion of fans who turn up for the odd home games to shout abuse and that won't change. Also it's about context. If I put a picture of a squirrel on facebook for example with an inoffensive comment about Knill then is that banter or personal abuse?
I just think that at the end of the day many of these fans are tired and close to giving up but I fully expect them to trawl to Dagenham with nothing but dread and bewilderment in their heads as to why they are even bothering. Knill has to start interacting with the fans and showing some support and appreciation because it should work both ways.
Personal abuse is not justified or acceptable but there should be a bit of understanding of how some people have got to this point other than just condemning everyone with a bad word to say as a cretin or something like (not directly saying you have - just some on here and on that other forums ).
Also Dave, I'm not criticising you for not going to many games, I myself generally only go to the away games but you have to understand the frustration, disappointment and anger of those fans that go home and away every week and watch what we have been served up. I finally saw a few people crack at the weekend in the away end and like you've already said, people who maybe you don't expect to but because they have it gives you the impression that it must be serious. Some even went to the bar mid second half because it was just that appalling once again and they'd just had enough. I was really sad on Saturday and sat down for the last 15, didn't even really acknowledge that Marquis had scored, I just wanted to go home even though it was a short journey for me for a change. I spend more than those that go on the coach because I travel alone and I have to foot the bill for the diesel, then the ticket etc and I felt violated by that on Saturday and the demeanour and attitude of Knill.
Getting up at the crack of dawn every other week and travelling 3,4,5 + hours in the cold and dark to get to dumps like Fleetwood, Accrington, Scunny, Morecambe, Bury, Rochdale and so on, the incessant rubbish on the pitch, the costs involved, the time spent, the days off work booked to go to Burton for the night game, the despair and the anger building. Seeing our manager motionless on the touchline making bad and bizarre decisions in front of their very eyes and not being able to do a thing about it, then trudging out of the ground to face a long journey back and not get in until late. This on the back of what happened last season too and I can totally understand why there maybe some resistance to adhering to the 'we're all in this together so let's support as one' notion.
And some fans who have commented on some of the anger aimed at Knill on Saturday too annoyed me. It was probably their first away game of the season and they suddenly felt they had a right to criticise others, some of which have been to every away game until now and given nothing but full, unbridled vocal support. These people commenting about this don't see this though, they just see a bit of abuse being dished out for the last 20 on Saturday, most of it not really that bad anyway, but they see this and make stupid comments like 'they were embarrassed to be a torquay fan on saturday' and stuff like this.
Maybe if they understood that it is mainly these die hard fans who keep the club afloat who quite understandably have finally had the camels back broken culminating at Scunthorpe then maybe they would keep quiet and not post such irresponsible comments.
I can't speak for the home fans at Plainmoor but I know for a fact that out of 8 away games I've been to the support to a man has been thoroughly exceptional and everyone at those games should be really proud of themselves and what they have tried to do.
What I am trying to say after all that is that we should all get behind the lads in every game regardless but I don't think it workable nor necessary for everyone to get behind Knill. So long as there is no more abuse from the terraces then that would be an acceptable truce, let Alan work in peace and without question whilst he is on the touchline. I think that is fair but I don't expect half of us to actually proactively support the man by shouting we love him and things. I accept that you will always get a proportion of fans who turn up for the odd home games to shout abuse and that won't change. Also it's about context. If I put a picture of a squirrel on facebook for example with an inoffensive comment about Knill then is that banter or personal abuse?
I just think that at the end of the day many of these fans are tired and close to giving up but I fully expect them to trawl to Dagenham with nothing but dread and bewilderment in their heads as to why they are even bothering. Knill has to start interacting with the fans and showing some support and appreciation because it should work both ways.
Personal abuse is not justified or acceptable but there should be a bit of understanding of how some people have got to this point other than just condemning everyone with a bad word to say as a cretin or something like (not directly saying you have - just some on here and on that other forums ).